Why You Can't Relax Even When You're Safe And What To Do About It
You know you are safe. So why does your body still feel like it is waiting for something bad to happen? If you can't relax even in safe spaces, your nervous system may be stuck in protection mode after trauma. This is one of the most common experiences for sexual assault survivors, and it has a name: hypervigilance. In this post, we explain what is happening inside your body, why it happens after trauma, and what you can do to start helping your nervous system heal. You will find simple grounding techniques you can use right now, plus tools to build a longer-term sense of safety. You are not broken. Your body learned to protect you. Now let's help it learn to rest.
Journaling for Healing - A Survivor's Guide to Getting Started
Journaling is one of the most powerful healing tools available to survivors. This guide walks you through why it works, how to start (even if you feel too overwhelmed), and how to use journaling to process shame, anger, and confusion—and move toward hope. Includes prompts, practices, and survivor-centered resources.
How to Ask for Time Off After Sexual Assault or Domestic Violence
If you’ve experienced sexual assault or domestic violence and need time off work to heal, you are not alone—and you have options. This trauma-informed guide walks you through how to professionally request leave, what to say in an email or meeting with your manager, and what your legal rights are. Whether you’re ready to speak openly or prefer to keep things private, this post offers real examples, scripts, and support to help you take the time you need to recover.
Letting Go of the Past Does Not Mean Forgetting What Happened
Letting go of the past does not mean forgetting what happened. Many trauma survivors struggle with moving forward because they fear it means erasing their experiences. But healing is not about pretending the past did not happen—it is about making peace with it so it no longer controls your future. Learn what letting go really means, why holding onto pain is unhealthy, and how to find emotional freedom while still honoring your story.
Journaling Can Help You Heal When Words Feel Too Hard to Say
Journaling can be a powerful tool for trauma survivors who struggle to express their emotions. Writing provides a safe and private way to process feelings, release stress, and take small steps toward healing. Whether you are just beginning your recovery or looking for a way to reconnect with yourself, journaling can help you find clarity and emotional relief. Explore the benefits of writing, try guided journal prompts, and download The Next 28: A Journaling Journey to Healing to start today.
Breaking the Silence - How To Find Support
Healing from trauma can feel overwhelming, and many survivors struggle to find the right support. Fear, self-doubt, and past experiences can make it hard to speak up, but healing is not something you have to do alone. This guide provides real steps to help you find safe spaces, trauma-informed therapy, support groups, and self-care tools like journaling to begin your recovery journey.
Why the First 28 Days After Trauma Shape Your Healing Journey and How to Find Support
The first 28 days after experiencing trauma can feel overwhelming, isolating, and confusing. Many survivors struggle with shock, emotional distress, and self-doubt, unsure of how to take the next step. Research shows that early support and intervention can significantly impact long-term healing and mental health outcomes. Learn why these first weeks are critical, how trauma affects the mind and body, and what survivors can do to navigate the early stages of recovery with support and self-compassion.

