How to Start Over With No Money After Leaving an Abusive Relationship
Starting over with no money after leaving an abusive relationship is one of the most overwhelming things a woman can face. The fear is real, and so is the help. This guide walks through emergency shelter, financial assistance, housing rights under VAWA, career rebuilding resources, and how The 1st 28 Foundation's Next Chapter program can be part of your next step.
Narcissistic Abuse Signs and Recovery - You Are Not Crazy, and You Are Not Alone
If you have spent time wondering whether what you experienced was really abuse, whether you were overreacting, or whether you were somehow the problem, this post is for you. Narcissistic abuse is real, recognized, and its effects run deep even when no one else could see them. We walk through the most common signs, including gaslighting, love bombing, and emotional isolation, and offer compassionate, practical steps toward healing. You do not have to figure this out alone. The 1st 28 Foundation is here with free resources, community, and people who truly understand.
When You're Running on Empty. Healing Burnout and Chronic Exhaustion
Have you been running on empty, or too tired to rest and too depleted to feel like yourself? Burnout and chronic exhaustion are real, and for trauma survivors and caregivers, they often run deeper than ordinary tiredness. In this post, we explore what burnout really is, why it is so closely connected to trauma and healing, and what you can do to begin gently reclaiming your energy and your light. Whether you are in the middle of your own recovery or you are supporting someone you love through theirs, this post is for you. You are not broken. You are not alone. Let's talk about healing together.
What Not to Say to a Sexual Assault Survivor
When someone you love has been sexually assaulted, you want to say the right thing. The truth is, most of us were never taught how. This guide walks through eight phrases that survivors hear all the time and explains why each one is hard to hear. More importantly, it gives you warm, simple words you can use instead. Whether you are a friend, a partner, a family member, or an advocate, this post will help you show up in a way that truly helps. Because survivors do not need perfect words. They need to feel safe, believed, and loved. You can give them that.
Your Body Kept the Score. What Nervous System Healing Looks Like for Survivors
Your body did not betray you. It protected you.
If you have ever wondered why your heart races at unexpected moments, why you feel frozen when you want to move, or why exhaustion follows you even after rest, this post is for you. Trauma does not only live in the mind. It lives in the muscles, the breath, and the nervous system.
Nervous system healing for survivors is real, and it is possible. In this post, we explore what your body has been carrying, what nervous system responses like fight, flight, freeze, and fawn actually mean, and what healing can look like in your daily life. We also share simple, accessible somatic tools you can start using today.
You are not broken. Your body was always fighting for you. Read on to learn how to gently help it find its way back to safety.
How to Obtain Self-Compassion After Trauma by Healing Your Inner Critic
If you've survived trauma, chances are you've also been living with a relentless inner critic — a voice that replays painful memories, questions your every decision, and whispers shame into your quietest moments. But that voice is not telling you the truth. Self-compassion after trauma isn't a luxury; it's a lifeline. In this post, The 1st 28 Foundation walks you through what the inner critic really is, why it formed, and — most importantly — how to begin healing it with practical, trauma-informed steps rooted in kindness, community, and the belief that your light cannot be taken from you.

